Here Is The Definitive Guide About How To Please A Woman - The One That Lets You Both Have Fantastic Sex!
In this book you will discover the two most fundamental principles in the bedroom. Here are two extracts from the book: Extract 1"If you think that your pleasure is more important, you are not going to have a great time. It's highly likely that many ladies reading this book are in definite agreement with the idea that men should give more thought and attention to their bedmates. And there will of course also be other women who think that such an approach is inconceivable: that there must be equality of pleasure. The simple way to examine this is to see what actually works. Whenever men have their climax first, they feel worn out and not in the mood for further action - as you know, you most likely want to roll onto your side of the bed and sleep. The alternative seems much more attractive: to have her climax several times, then for you to get off more powerfully than you could ever have imagined possible. So what works is for men to defer their climax. It's a simple fact that if a man 'gets off' and his woman doesn't, he will feel bad, perhaps he will feel like a failure, or that he has let her down, and this will spoil the mood immediately. Besides which, his excitement is pretty much dependent on how turned on she is: it's only going to be so-so for him if she isn't extremely turned on. A woman who is not thrilled by sex is not actually going to be very good in bed, while a woman who reaches her climax with energy and complete loss of self-control - including the noise she makes - is an amazing bed partner for any man. Indeed, if you haven't experienced this yet, it is a fantastic feeling that feeds into the deepest urges of a man: to make it happen in bed! When you think that you will be so turned-on by her responses that you will come much quicker and enjoy a much more powerful orgasm than you would with an average partner, you have some pretty impressive reasons why the focus should be on her pleasure. If you stop to think about it, you'll have had a session at some time where you reached climax but you felt she'd not had such a great time. You certainly won't have walked away thinking that was a great experience or that you were a partner to be proud of! Indeed, such times can leave you feeling quite empty. By contrast, your best experience was most likely one in which she was not just slightly aroused, but massively turned-on. As we discussed, a woman has the power to control the extent of a man's pleasure." Extract 2A woman controls the limits... "A woman controls the limits of a man's pleasure. Are you shaking your head in disbelief? Can a woman really have that much power? Reflect for a moment on those occasions when you found that your erection had disappeared, or you couldn't get one in the first place; ask yourself if your partner was really interested in sex, or if perhaps she was just doing it to keep you happy. Was it possible that she changed her mind, or lost her own excitement, and you lost your erection at the same time? If you're not getting hard when you're with a potential partner, it says something about the dynamic between the two of you. And as you may also know from your past, when she really wants to be pleasured, and is fully into what's happening, her increasing sensual energy can really move you both in the same direction - a positive feedback cycle that constantly increases both partners' pleasure. You may have had a time when you were giving her exactly what she needed, and you felt her energy making you more excited, so much so that you thought you were going to climax without your penis being stimulated in any way at all. If you are perfectly in tune, you can climax like this when she does even if you are not inside her, and you're not touching yourself. There's another aspect to all this, as well: when she gets what she wants in bed, you're going to make love a lot more often. Those snuggles, those climaxes, all of them, contribute to your satisfaction and enjoyment as well; and when you have a woman who's satisfied, pleasured and fulfilled, you're going to have a much higher quality of life in general with a better relationship outside the bedroom and better sex in it. So, if you focus on your needs, you will likely get average sex - or very little sex - and if you focus on what she wants, you will probably have a much better time and greater satisfaction and fulfilment. So now we move on to look at how you can do this; how you can meet her needs from minute to minute. Bottom line: if she doesn't get pleasured, it's not great for both of you. By contrast, when she gets all that she wants and needs, it's going to give both of you a fabulous time!" Intrigued? If you'd like to know more... ....click here for A Better Sex Life - Right Now!With warmest wishes for your happiness and a very great time! Rod Phillips Advice on how to overcome compulsive masturbation can be found here. |