Here Is The Definitive Guide To Pleasuring
A Woman
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The One That Lets You Both Have Fantastic Sex!
In this book you will discover the two most
fundamental principles in the bedroom.
Here are two extracts from the book:
Who gets most pleasure
A
woman controls the limits
Extract 1
Who gets most pleasure...
"If you think that your
pleasure is more important, you are not going to have a
great time.
It's highly likely that many ladies reading this book are
in definite agreement with the idea that men should give
more thought and attention to their bedmates. And there
will of course also be other women who think that such
an approach is inconceivable: that there must be
equality of pleasure.
The simple way to examine this
is to see what actually works. Whenever men have their
climax first, they feel worn out and not in the mood for
further action - as you know, you most likely want to
roll onto your side of the bed and sleep. The
alternative seems much more attractive: to have her
climax several times, then for you to get off more
powerfully than you could ever have imagined possible.
So what works is for men to defer their climax.
It's a simple fact that if a man 'gets off' and his woman
doesn't, he will feel bad, perhaps he will feel like a
failure, or that he has let her down, and this will
spoil the mood immediately. Besides which, his
excitement is pretty much dependent on how turned on she
is: it's only going to be so-so for him if she isn't
extremely turned on. A woman who is not thrilled by sex is
not actually going to be very good in bed, while a woman
who reaches her climax with energy and complete loss of
self-control - including the noise she makes - is an
amazing bed partner for any man. Indeed, if you haven't
experienced this yet, it is a fantastic feeling that
feeds into the deepest urges of a man: to make it happen
in bed!
When you think that you will be
so turned-on by her responses that you will come much
quicker and enjoy a much more powerful orgasm than you
would with an average partner, you have some pretty
impressive reasons why the focus should be on her
pleasure.
If you stop to think about it,
you'll have had a session at some time where you reached
climax but you felt she'd not had such a great time. You
certainly won't have walked away thinking that was a
great experience or that you were a partner to be proud
of! Indeed, such times can leave you feeling quite
empty. By contrast, your best experience was most likely
one in which she was not just slightly aroused, but
massively turned-on. As we discussed, a woman
has the power to control the extent of a man's pleasure."
Extract 2
A woman
controls the limits...
"A woman controls the limits
of a man's
pleasure.
Are you shaking your head in
disbelief? Can a woman really have that much power?
Reflect for a moment on those occasions when you found
that your erection had disappeared, or you
couldn't get one in the first place; ask yourself if
your partner was really interested in sex, or if perhaps
she was just doing it to keep you happy. Was it possible
that she changed her mind, or lost her own excitement,
and you lost your erection at the same time? If you're
not getting hard when you're with a potential partner,
it says something about the dynamic between the two of
you.
And as you may also know from
your past, when she really wants to be pleasured, and is
fully into what's happening, her increasing sensual
energy can really move you both in the same direction -
a positive feedback cycle that constantly increases both
partners' pleasure. You may have had a time when you
were giving her exactly what she needed, and you felt
her energy making you more excited, so much so that you
thought you were going to climax without your penis
being stimulated in any way at all. If you are perfectly
in tune, you can climax like this when she does even
if you are not inside her, and you're not touching
yourself.
There's another aspect to all
this, as well: when she gets what she wants in bed,
you're going to make love a lot more often. Those
snuggles, those climaxes, all of them, contribute to
your satisfaction and enjoyment as well; and when you
have a woman who's satisfied, pleasured and fulfilled,
you're going to have a much higher quality of life in
general with a better relationship outside the bedroom
and better sex in it.
So, if you focus on your needs,
you will likely get average sex - or very little sex -
and if you focus on what she wants, you will probably
have a much better time and greater satisfaction and
fulfilment. So now we move on to look at how you can do
this; how you can meet her needs from minute to minute.
Bottom line: if she doesn't get
pleasured, it's not great for both of you. By contrast,
when she gets all that she wants and needs, it's going
to give both of you a fabulous time!"
Intrigued? If you'd like to know
more...
With warmest wishes for your happiness
and a very great time!
Rod Phillips
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