How To Please A Woman

And Have Fantastic Sex!


"Rod, where have you been all these years, when I needed this information so badly? My wife and I were arguing so much about our relationship and sex had more or less stopped before we read your eBook, and yet now our life together is beautifully calm and relaxed.... and life is looking great!"

Robert Gascoigne - New York

In the eBook "Women Come First"  I will show you Secrets Of Sexual Pleasure Every Man Needs To Know. You'll discover how to enjoy mutual sexual fulfillment during your lovemaking.

If you're ever baffled by the way a woman responds to you in bed, and you simply wish it was easier to satisfy her sexual needs, then you need to read my eBook right now!

Consider this....

Pleasing A Woman In Bed

If you, as a man, think that getting your own pleasure is more important than knowing how to pleasure her, you are not going to have great sex!

It's highly likely that many women reading this will completely agree with the idea that men should give more thought and attention to their women's needs.

But some women think that such an approach is unfair. They think there must be equality of pleasure.

So let's examine this is and see what actually works for a couple in bed together.

When men have their orgasm first, they often feel worn out and not in the mood for further sexual activity. In fact, as you know if you're a man, you most likely want to roll onto your side of the bed and sleep.

The alternative seems much more attractive: to have the woman orgasm several times, then for you, the man, to get off. And how wonderful if you enjoy an orgasm more powerful than you could ever have imagined possible.

Did you know you can do that if you delay your orgasm? Well, it's true.

So what works for BOTH partners is for men to postpone their orgasm.

Besides, it's a simple fact that if a man reaches orgasm and his woman doesn't, he will feel bad, perhaps he'll feel like a failure, or think he's let her down, and this will spoil the mood immediately.

Besides which, his excitement is closely linked to how turned on she is: lovemaking is only going to be so-so for him if she isn't aroused - and in fact, the more aroused she is, the more rewarding sex is for him.... So, for men, taking time to make sure your female partner is aroused is a great idea.

A woman who is not thrilled by sex is not really going to be "good in bed", while a woman who reaches her climax with energy and complete loss of self-control - including the noise she makes - is an amazing sexual partner for any man.

Pleasuring Your Partner Is An Art, Not A Science!

Men: when you're very turned-on by your woman's responses, you will come much more powerfully than you would with "average" sex, so you have some pretty impressive reasons why the focus should be on her pleasure.  (It takes time to arouse most women... much longer than it does to arouse a man. Ten or twenty times longer, usually, in fact.)

If you stop to think about it, you'll have had a sex session at some time where you reached climax but you felt your partner hadn't enjoyed it so much. She didn't look like a woman satisfied in bed....

You certainly won't have walked away thinking that was a great experience or that you were a sexual partner to be proud of! Indeed, such times can leave you feeling you just don't know how to please her, and quite empty.

By contrast, your best experience was most likely one in which she was not just slightly aroused, but massively turned-on.  So in some ways, a woman has the power to control the extent of a man's pleasure.

A Woman Controls The Limits Of Her Man's Pleasure

"A woman controls the limits of a man's pleasure."

Are you shaking your head in disbelief? Can a woman really have that much power?

Reflect for a moment on those occasions when you found that your erection had disappeared,  or you couldn't get one in the first place, or even when you were just not very turned on, or sex felt like a let-down. Then ask yourself if your partner was really interested in sex, or if perhaps she was just doing it to keep you happy.

Was it possible that she changed her mind, or lost her own excitement, and you lost your desire and maybe your erection at the same time?

If you're not getting hard when you're with a potential partner, it says something about the sexual dynamic between the two of you.

To be sure you can please her, you have to be turned on. Both of you. And of course, you have to know how to please her.

As you may also know from your past experience, when a woman really wants to be pleasured, and is fully into what's happening, her increasing sexual energy can really move you both in the same direction - a positive feedback cycle that constantly increases your arousal, her arousal, her pleasure, and your pleasure. 

For example, you may have had a time when you were giving her exactly what she needed, and you felt her energy making you more excited, so much so that you thought you were going to climax without your penis being stimulated in any way at all.

If you are perfectly in tune, you can climax like this at the same time as your partner even when you are not inside her, and even if you're not stimulating your cock.

There's another aspect to all this, as well: when she gets what she wants in bed, you're going to make love a lot more often.

Those snuggles, cuddles and orgasms, all of them, contribute to your satisfaction and enjoyment as well; and when you have a woman who's satisfied, pleased to be with you, and fulfilled, you're going to have a much higher quality of life in general, a better relationship outside the bedroom, and better sex in it. 

Satisfying Your Woman In Bed Is Essential.

Discover How To Please Her.

So, if you focus only on YOUR needs, you will likely get average sex - or very little sex - and if you focus on what SHE wants, you will probably have a much better time and get greater satisfaction and fulfillment.

You need to know how to please her; how you can meet her needs in the relationship - while still looking after your own needs and without sacrificing your desires.

Bottom line: if she doesn't get pleasured, and she isn't satisfied in bed, it's not great for both of you. By contrast, when she gets all that she wants and needs, it's going to give both of you great sex!

In short, knowing how to please a woman is part of a man's role in keeping a relationship alive.

With best wishes for your happiness, sensual pleasure, and a very good relationship!

Rod Phillips

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Ensure that your health is good before you start looking for great sex! The fact is, if you aren't feeling physically and emotionally well, the quality of your sex life will not be up to par. I've seen many couples who've allowed themselves to become overweight, unfit, and lazy. Their sex lives reflect that - slow, cumbersome, unsatisfying, and somehow just too much effort. I'd suggest you start with a weight loss program, and then try a healthy diet using wholefoods. Eat 2000 - 2500 Calories a day, and ensure that you do some fitness training and strength exercises. If you have specific conditions like gout, get help from either a doctor who knows what he or she is talking about, or a suitable program of home remedies. A gout diet can help you get the condition under control, and you're sure to enjoy sex more. The same applies to arthritis, high blood pressure, and other problems such as low back pain.